Attorneys At Law
What’s going on at the firm today? Matthew Stumpf of Lionize Productions is here with attorney Rick Howard working on his portion of our Perkasie FallFest 5K promotion. Save the date – Sunday, October 4, 2015 – and stay tuned for more news!
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Throughout the month of June, our team is thinking about our Word of the Month – “Clarity.”
Defined as “the quality of being expressed, remembered, understood, etc., in a very exact way” clarity is a quality essential to every good relationship, whether business or personal. In our daily lives, seeking to be clear about our intent is essential to achieving our goals. It is something we seek every day at Weber Kracht and Chellew.
“Without focusing and getting to clarity you cannot lead. You cannot motivate. You cannot plan. You cannot communicate.” – Bobb Biehl
What does clarity mean to you?
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To parents of students graduating from high school:
We are entering graduation season for high school students. Many graduates will be attending parties to celebrate the event. If you host such a party, be careful not to allow the event to become the cause of serious problems. You cannot allow minors to drink alcohol at graduation parties. Pennsylvania law provides for Social Host Liability for the service of alcohol to minors. This means that if you allow minors to drink alcohol in your home and they thereafter go out and drive a car and cause an accident, you would be responsible to the victim of the accident. I have seen cases where parents take car keys of high school graduates, thinking that if all of the graduates are staying overnight, any alcohol consumption will not be a problem. This does not work. Minors have ways to still go out and drive. Zero tolerance is the only way to go.
I recently became involved in a program designed to help keep our children away from heroin and other dangerous drugs. I have learned that many individuals become addicted to heroin after starting with prescription medications like Oxycodone. If you host a graduation party, make sure that any prescription medication is secured and not available to any party attendant.
This should be a happy season for you and your graduates. Please make sure it stays that way.
We wish all the best to the Class of 2015.
Dean Arthur is one of the most respected and well-known lawyers in Bucks County. A former president of the Bucks County Bar Association, Dean specializes in Civil and Commercial Litigation, Insurance Defense and Criminal Defense at Weber Kracht and Chellew.
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Many thanks to everyone who attended the Pennridge Chamber of Commerce “Business After Hours” Card Exchange we co-hosted with Sisters U on May 28. We hope everyone had a terrific time making new connections and strengthening relationships. Thanks to Stephen Brown of Looking Glass Photography for these photos.
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Today we’re continuing Abigail F. Tuttle’s blog on the Top 10 ways you, as a client, can help your family law attorney do their very best work on your behalf. If you’d like a refresher, 1-5 can be found here.
6. If this, then that
You know your spouse and/or the other party best. Prepare your attorney by explaining how you expect your opposition will react given different scenarios. You may be able to assist in gaining tactical advantages by anticipating reactions and strategizing accordingly.
7. Preparing for the stranger on the other side of the courtroom
Understand and believe that once you become involved in family law proceedings, the opposition, most likely someone you once loved, or still do, may no longer be the person you love(d). While you can still provide inside information to your attorney based on your knowledge of the other party (see #6), do not rely on that knowledge in any real way. The most common example I see of this is the naive client who believes that because his wife told him on their anniversary that if they ever got divorced he could keep his Aston Martin and then is shocked when that is the first thing his ex-wife wants. Do not assume that because you and the other party enter into family law proceedings amicably and faithfully promise each other it will remain that way, that it will. Emotions are tricky things in family law. Most importantly, do not rely on some agreement with the other party which has not been approved by a court.
8. Jerry Springer and Judge Judy battles are not helpful
Do not fight with the other party in court, in negotiations or even outside of the litigation. You will not accomplish anything and you will not even feel better. Do not engage. Being polite never hurt anyone. If you want your kids or your marital home as badly as you think you do, you can handle being on your best behavior, no matter how difficult. Of course, no one will blame you if you treat yourself to a pedicure as a reward or vent by singing loudly to angry music in your car all by yourself.
9. Follow court orders
This would seem simple, but it is not. If the court orders you to do something, do it. This includes anything from turning over records to following a no contact order with the other party. Courts do not like it when their orders are ignored. Your attorney can only do so much for you if you have ignored this rule.
10. Court appearances
Be early. That merits repeating. Be early. Do not overlook traffic, last minute wardrobe catastrophes, lack of parking, a long line at courthouse security or getting lost in the courthouse. Dress appropriately. If you do not know what that means, ask your attorney. One hint though, it does not mean pajama pants or ripped jeans. Finally, it is “Your Honor.” If you are addressed by the court, you call the judge, “Your Honor.” People constantly stumble when it comes to this one. Practice it. “Your Honor.”
Follow these ten tips and you’ll be well on your way to making a stressful time of life a little less so. If you have questions or a situation you’d like to discuss, please contact us. We’ll be glad to talk with you.
Abigail F. Tuttle is a 2007 graduate of the Temple University School of Law and specializes in Criminal Defense, Insurance Defense and Family Law at Weber Kracht and Chellew.
This blog is designed for general information only. The information presented should not be construed to be formal legal advice nor the formation of a lawyer/client relationship.